Well my husband and I have been married for 4 years and throughout those years I cheated on him. I told him what happened and he deceided to work things out, well, things didn't work out and we ended up separating. Well, I moved to a different state and to see if things would get better for me but things did not, he wrote me a letter while I was there and said he wanted to work things out if nothing else at least for the family (we have 1 child and I'm 7 months pregnant). I deceided to move back to the state that we were in and see if things could work, well, we both acquired new friendships while we were apart. Well, I moved in with him and he was still getting phone calls he informed me that he had told them to stop calling because he was trying to make it work with his wife. <P>My problem is that everynight when I'm in the bed or when he thinks I'm sleep he is calling them. Now I know that he wouldn't cheat on me but I don't like the fact that when I wake up in the middle of the night he is talking to some girl and he is flirting over the phone with them.<P>I'm doing whatever I can to show him that I'm not the same person I've changed and all I want is for my marriage to work but I wonder if I'm doing it all in vain. He does little things that well show me that he wants to make it work and that he loves me but at night it changes it's like he gets board or something and he just has to talk to a female over the phone. They don't call him he calls them.<P>I don't know if I'm just tripping or am I being to jealous or what I don't know. I'm confused about the whole situation.<P>Please if anyone has been in this situation or understands please send some info<BR>

If he is calling women every night, that's definitely not right. I understand if he was talking to a sister or mother or cousin or something, but if it's just a girl that he is friends with and it's every night, than it's wrong and he needs to stop.