I fell in love with this man several months ago. I was going to leave my boyfriend of 7 yrs whom I have been unhappy with for the last 3 yrs, but I couldn't leave right away because I didn't want to hurt him or my children. The other man told me that he would be around when I finally decided to leave. He told me that he couldn't stay involved with me if I was going to stay with him because he was not the kind of person who believed in affairs. I tell him several weeks later that I really am leaving this time, and he says he won't let me down. Well, now he's telling me that he is committed with a woman. I feel so ignorant and hurt because I am really in love with him. He told me that he will always love me, but he couldn't wait around when I kept telling him that I was going to leave and never would. I can't say that he used me because we never had sex at all. We both refrained from sex because we didn't feel that it was right until I left my boyfriend. He didn't love me, did he?