I also have no idea and am in same situation, I am being forced to leave my home and move 3 1/2 hours away to my parents. Where I know, at least, I'm loved, and very much needed. Cannot believe after being married for 31 years, that he has been thinking about this for at least 2 years, made his final decision on his on six months ago and never disccused it with me. Told me 3 weeks ago, 2 days before bladder surgery, the same old crap. I no longer am in love with you and don't think I can ever feel about you in the same way. I still love and care of you, but on a different level. I have not been allowed any options, participation in any conversation. What an ******* he is? What's so funny I truly understand what and how he is feeling, and see why he handled this way. It is so totally driving him nuts, he just can't stand that I know why he has done this or understand why he did it this way. He has every classic symptom of a mid-life crisis, but he only deals with absolutes, and at least read these symptoms, but then was in total denial. I'm just not suppose to question anything, just accept and go on. He's totally nuts, and is not the same man I thought he was. Stress does things to people, crazy things. He has total tunnel vision and has always been hard to communication with. Most upstanding<BR>man you would want to meet. It's just a shame that he and things have turned out the way they have. He has given me no options, won't allow my feelings to aired. I just found out 3 weeks ago, thanks for the communication skills - they suck! Would like to know any solutions for this same for this. Please!
