We are in our 50's, been married for 6 years. Sex has been good at times but no consistency. My husband says he loves me but not in that way. I don't really know what that means or really any of the other excuses he has offered from time to time. What I don't understand is when we have made love in the past he seems elated and it was really good for us. But no more. Any guys got any ideas?<BR>didi