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Why would an unfaithful wife who had an affair want to come back to the person who she cheated on?
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There are many reasons such as the OM dumping her and finding herself without any accomodations and financial support, realizing that the other side of the grass is not greener, realizing that the affair had more to do with her emotional baggage than with her marriage, afraid that she will end up as a loney divorced woman who will never get married again.
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probably because she thinks your a softy and will let her come back.
what is it you want? do you want all the pain again?
if you want to be together again.
Is she willing to do the things it will take to get you back?
read all the stuff on the site if thats how you choose to do it..will she be open to councelling?
what happened between her and om?
that is something you need to know.
make sure it is over if you take her back.
I hope you really think it through cause it can be a pattern and could most definetly be a pattern and she might do this again.
hope things work out for you whichever you do choose..make sure it is your decision to take her back..don't let her force her way back..
take care of you...think of your future financial status and move your money etc if you do take her back so your not screwed over by her in the future..be safe protect yourself and have her tested for stds...
Keep on Keeping on..
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