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Through a long separation, and now divorce (divorce was made final on May 22nd, my ex has now announced that she plans to marry the OM she cheated on me with. I thought I was over all of emotion pain (and I was devasted when I learned of the affair), but the reality of divorce and an immediate announcement of remarriage has me reliving all the pain of the last year and a half and makes me feel depressed...we are sharing custody of our 5 year son, but I am worried about the impact of all of this on him and obviously me...any insight out there????
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I feel your pain. I will be divorced very soon and my stbxh is announcing he'll move out of the family home. Wonder if he's moving in with Family values or if an elopement is coming.
May be in your boat soon. Just remember, that they will soon fizzle. Take refuge in that. Marriages out of destruction are like homes built on quicksand. They will stand but start to sink a little day by day. It will be no time before Mr. Right has become Mr. Right now and she understands her mistake. BTW..my son will be five in august. How can anybody explain away a family to a child? The foggy wayward spouses sure can try. But even kids that age are wise to their crap.
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