We are just alike in many ways, we are both hurt over the breakup of our marriage and family. We both talk a great deal about our EXs and what disgusts us about them. Only difference.....I dont interact with my EX, she doesnt ask me to get involved with anything that has to do with her, only the children. This allows me to move on, by you constantly staying in contact with you EX.....you will never move on. That is the difference. We are both DIVORCED, I have to have a certain amount of contact for the next 18 or so years because of my children. You have no children with this man........If I was in your position, I would never speak to my EX again. You do not know how luck you are to be able to put your former marriage behind you and move on. I have to deal with mine for awhile. God Bless. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

This allows me to move on, by you constantly staying in contact with you EX.....you will never move on.

I wouldn't say "constant" was very accurate. I didn't talk to him from April 12-May 30. Then I saw him May 30 because of the house, and then have talked to him a few times since then, because of his new revelation. Our house will close June 30....after that, I don't plan to be in contact with him again unless some miracle occurs inside of him. If you read a lot of my posts, you will see that.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by adgirl48:
[QBOur house will close June 30....after that, I don't plan to be in contact with him again unless some miracle occurs inside of him. If you read a lot of my posts, you will see that.[/QB]</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Good girl, I wish I was in your shoes....unfortunately I have children and have to be in contact with my EX all the time. I do NOT like her, but will have to learn to just to keep the peace. God Bless, and you seem like a lady who some guy would be proud to have as his wife. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

God Bless, and you seem like a lady who some guy would be proud to have as his wife.

Thanks, I think I am finally realizing that myself.