My boyfriend, by his own admission, is a born liar. He says he has been a liar since he was able to talk. He lies about the littlest things, dumb things. He'll even manufacture huge stories, and they are so easy to see through. Now I have discovered that he has been talking to his ex-wife, which of course he lied about. And I am convinced that when he says he loves me and wants to be with me, not her, that he is lying to me.<P>He's otherwise a great guy, perfect companion. Does housekeeping, takes care of our aging parents, does all the laundry, works hard to get ahead. He's everything you could ask for in a mate EXCEPT that he lies about EVERYTHING!<P>I have read that there is no cure for a born liar, but that as they get older they tend to drop the dishonest behavior. We are in our forties and he is Still lying like a teenager.<P>Is this a medical or personality condition? Can it be fixed with couseling or something?<P>Anyone, please, I am about at the end of my rope. I love him but I dont believe him, or in him, and I hate this feeling of distrust. I can't live this way.<P>HELP!