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#753462 06/28/03 12:02 AM
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I should have posted this awhile ago, but, having to take care of three homes and play ambulance more than full time kinda took time away from MB. I figured you guys prob forgot about us as it's been a long time since I posted.

Well.... we were supposed to get M on April 5 of this year. But, it didn't happen, we were just going to go to a District Justice friend of mine and say the "I do's". We both had the "BIG" church weddings and both opted this time for a simple ceremony. As the date came closer the kids [hers] got excited and wanted to be involved. Chelsea [10] wants to be the flower girl and Ian [7] wants to carry my long time friend "Scruffy" [my teddy bear whom is as old as the hills, the ring bear, {bearer} get it?] My kids are older, [18 and 21] have sports cars and GF's now and don't really care what the "old man" is doing.

So, we came up with two diff senarios. One, we get M at Seaside Heights, NJ with the Mayor officiating on the beach. Two, get M in the chapel of a local cave with the DJ.

G went all out and bought Ian a new suit and Chel's a very nice dress. They are both going to fly tomorrow to their fathers home in AK to visit for a month. So we have some time to decide.

The M is still on, I can't seem to get rid of G, partly because she has a glass eye and I am one of the only people that knows which eye to look at when I talk to her. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Otherwise things are going great, we are getting the house remodeling done,[two years now] she is in the planning stages [seven so far] of a second story addition and I am looking at pools, hot tubs and a garage with a workshop.

So, yes, life does continue after divorce, we couldn't be happier!!!

A special "HEY" to all our Buds out in MB land.

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Hey Tim,

Sorry things didn't work out in April. But you guys know when the timing is right!

Sounds like you've both been very busy! Tell Gina to make up her mind on the house! LOL

And tell her to drop me a line sometime. (Or at least give me her email addy so I can get in touch with her!) Mine is tmcgreevy@earthlink.net or mlmcgreevy@hotmail.com

And NO, we haven't forgotten either one of you!

Take care,
Mitzi <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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Well, Tim...that is some news. You too seem right for each other and you will know when the time is right.

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Tim...

Just a voice from the past.

Good Luck, Congrats, and Best Wishes.

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Hey Guys,

I just can't seem to get rid of her. It's like she is fixated. Well, guess I have to just M her and be done with it.

It's scary, we are so much alike I can see one day an old lost relative will tell us we are brother and sister and we will have to move to WV. [sorry Mitzi, had to do it]

Hey Jim [HA, pulled you out of the woodwork] we zipped passed you yesterday taking the kids to EWR airport. I would still like to meet you, you **are** an incredible man. Maybe one day. Is the X still 10 miles away from me?

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Yep...

10 miles when she's at her condo...
~30 miles when she's at her nudist camp... (without my kids)

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One of these days...
...when the next Phila gettogether happens...
...we'll meet.

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Jim, how did the mess with the camp and the related behaviors at her house turn out? I can see a hijacking occured. Sorry?

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hey tim......when i read the title my heart skipped a beat. (not in a good way!) im glad to hear you guys are ok and doing well. we were just at seaside yesterday all day. i so miss living down there.

keep us updated--i think of you guys often.

got an off-topic question. i am thinking of joining the local ambulance corps. what do i need to do to become a paramedic. i cant seem to get a straight answer from anyone. its something i have allways been interested in doing and i may do it. i just need some straight info. thanks


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