Haven't posted in a while. We have our 1st hearing (temp orders) today. My atty hasn't heard from WH or his atty yet. What happens if WH doesn't show? One minute I think he will, the next I don't.

WH did nothing but lie since November. Made me think everything was my fault then at our last MC session in March, he said that it had nothing to do with me and that it was all him. When we got home, I found out money was missing and asked him if he took any out of the account. WH said "no". Those were the last words he spoke to me. I moved out the day after I filed (in may).

b4 I moved, I found all kinds of nasty stuff. Found out he had an STD and never told me. He took all the money from our joint account and left me 50 bucks. Said he was staying over at work for meetings (not the kind you get paid for, meeting the OW)

There's just so much more I don't even want to get thinking about it anymore! I just want this over so I can get on with my life. WH was just a creep. Also found out after I moved, WH has pics of girls (young) that were at our house swimming and stuff. Don't know how he got the pics, but I did take the computer with me. I can't find the pics, but my BIL said that WH showed them to him and that there were about 200 of them! Should I have the hard drive looked at? Is there any way that stuff can be recovered if it's been deleted? Should I even use this if necessary? I have a YD, and I'm concerned. What if there's pics of her on there?

I know today is only temp order hearing, but I'm scared. This man is NOT what I thought he was when I married him. I do not even want to look at his nasty face. Oh how I wish this was over.

How did your hearing go? I have mine coming up in a couple of weeks. Temp orders and financial affid crap.
I am very nervous too, I hope that it went well for you.
I understand how you feel about not wanting to see him, and how he is not the person you married.
I am not looking forward to seeing mine, I have no idea who that person is anymore, and what he will try to do to me.
Take care and chin up, it will be over soon. Just think about it this way, it may take a year to get the divorce over with, but in the grand scheme of things, a year is not that long.
Harmony

Yes, there are computer programs that can help retrieve previously deleted images or programs from a computer hard drive. Most larger city police departments have them as part of their forensics team "stuff".

If you message "Bramblerose" on GQII or In Recovery, she might be able to give you specific programs you can purchase for such a project (she does that kind of thing at work... or at least she has in the past).

Karen

hi,
was wondering how things are going for you?
I want you to know I am praying for you and I hope things go well for you.

IT is hard when going through the courts etc,
it will be hard the first 2 weeks after is the hardest then you sort of get to the point you do the sigh of relief it is over...the worse part is over.

I hope you get to the bottom of the pics on your computer..do not let him have that..keep the puter locked up if you have to. it would be interesting to see what is on there..

be careful who you have help you, especially if a professional because most have to report..child porno and if some look underage they have to turn it in..

Topie would be a good source to help you.
I think she already told you to get hold of Kathi
I pray good things for you and hope in all this you find your strength in the Lord..

let me know if there is any way I can be of help to you I am a good listener..hugs..
plus I am around alot near puter so if you are in need of an ear..give me an e-mail..anytime
EarthAngel
earthangel@telcomplus.net

Hanging on for dear life!!??

how did you do at the court hearing..did he show up..let me know how things went ok..have been waiting to hear from you..God bless and Keep on Keeping on..
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