<BR>My brother-in-law and I work together and he has taken up with a women at<BR>work. He is not trying to hide it either. They are together constantly.Should I have a talk with him? Or should I just go on acting like it doesn't bother me? I'm VERY upset about this. PLEASE help me! What<BR>should I do?

YIKES.......looks like you're going to be caught in the middle of this ordeal one way or another. If I were in your shoes (which are probably most uncomfortable right now), I'd confront the BIL and advise him of your suspicions and that you are not very comfortable with the situation. I'm assuming (and I've been told time and again not to assume...LOL) that this BIL is married to your S or SIL. If this is the case, then he is playing with fire and doing an injustice to his marriage. Let him tell you what his intentions are and then you, in turn, can tell him what you plan to do with the knowledge. And, of course, tact is always appreciated. Perhaps early intervention can stave off future damage to his marriage as well as the potential curiousity seekers who have witnessed this blatant "friendship" between him and the co-worker. Allow him the opportunity to set things straight in his life and if that fails at least you know that you did what you thought best in aiding a family member.<P>------------------<BR><B>Time heals all wounds as long as you DON'T pick at them!</B>