My Wife and I have been seperated 6 weeks now.For a time everything was my fault,I drank to much (doing aa not a drop 7 wks) I showed little love,she did everything,I worked to much etc.Recently My she has admitted that the cancer scare she had 3 months ago has really messed her up.We see eachother everyday,and I am the only one she really talks to,she has not even told her friends about the split-up,I don't know what to make of this?I had been trying to talk her into getting some help but she shrugs it off,but the other day she said she needed help,started crying thanked me for being here for her.She says she cries every night in bed.She doesn't want to talk about the situation,but I am losing my job in a month and must decide what to do with the house and she says it is to soon,I said I had a friend who might rent it,and she started to cry.I really want her to get back to herself,what kind of therapy might help her,and me?I think that we can work this out, after she gets her head cleaned up.Would marriage counseling help much?