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It has happened
#755323 07/30/03 04:44 AM
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Well, it has finally happened, my WS has finally hit rock bottom. On the verge of getting divorced, she finally realizes this scum bag true identity.

He already has other women lined up, she found this out on his email. He almost hit her the other day, and as she changed jobs, she could not afford to spend money on him, OM just started to treat het like garbage.

Now she wants her family back, her life with her children again. Is this a chance for me to try and rebuild our marriage? How sincere is she about all of this? Only she knows.

I do know that her imediate family will help as much as possible, but like they told her she needs to go to a therapist and get help. I am seriously considering giving her another chance with this marriage, but only time will tell.
Re: It has happened
#755324 07/30/03 07:30 AM
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Be careful. Look through the fog. Take it one day at a time. Deep counseling and therapy is needed. I am not saying don't try. Do what is in your heart. Just be careful.
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Please be careful.
If you do take her back I suggest a contract.
Set your boundries in stone.
Everything out in the open and no excuses.
Take some time to think about it.
What if this hadn't happened?
Would she have wanted to come back to you?

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Re: It has happened
#755326 07/30/03 07:08 PM
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Thank you for the response

Yes I am being careful, I don't believe her one bit, in fact I feel the situation itself was too conveinent for her. We are still proceeding with the divorce and after she signs the papers whatever happen will happen.

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