I have been in an relationship for 13-1/2 years. Married for 8 of them this Aug. 27th. My wife is at a point where she says that she has no feelings for me any more. (kisses, love making, being together, etc). I've been lying to her by not dicussing purchases with her. I haven't been arguementive with her, I have not been making passes at her for the past 4 years. We both work different shifts. I, 6 to 2 at the time, she, 3- 11 at the time. I would wake up during the night to go to the bathroom and not going to see her to ask her how her day was or giving her a hug or kiss. She would text message me and I wouldn't reply. I would be in bed by 10 or 11 o'clock. She feels that we were roommates for the past 4 years, because of this. Now she has just told me that she needs her space to figure herself out. She needs time to herself. And someday she is going to have sex with someone. We have two kids, 3 and 14. I have them most of the time Mon. thru Fri. We live together. Can someone reply with advice on this. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />