posted August 08, 2003 12:18 PM
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We had a bad, bad lunch meeting. He gave me what he said he would for cs. He was very nasty and standoffish from the beginning. For What? I have been nothing but nice. I could feel my blood boiling. But I tried, and I tried and I tried and I just couldn't take it. I asked if he had any attention on ending his affair and he said yes, I asked if when he ended he would be interested in any Counselling. He said what kind of counselling. I said counselling for everything. He said affair or no affair I want a Divorce. I was fine with that - I let him exit the car w/ out another word. Than I called from cell phone to advice him I had intended on attending a fam reunion that I attend every year which happens to be ow fam reunion....Big family. I've never seen her there. And asked if he'd planned on going. He seemed not to know anything about it. He was nasty. I thanked him for paying cs on time and he said yeah next time I won't be giving it to you. I said who will and he said it will come through the courts and I said well good, if they have they're paperwork together. (because they haven't) Than I said why we're on the subject would you like to negotiate with me an increase in cs. He said increase you want more money....way to piss him off. He said well I'm already giving you xxxamount. according to csenforcement I can get 300.00 more and I'd rather be getting it for my children than having him blow it up in the air on ow or whatever. I told him that I would be pursuing the maximum amount available and the only reason I had not done it was because I thought it was temporary and that we would try to get our stuff together. I told him that the money he is giving is making it difficult for me to do the things I need to do for the children. He said I don't think your going to get it. And if you do it's going to be very ugly for the next 18 years. I told him it was unfair to threaten me because I am pursuing my legal right as a mother. further more, he pissed me off because he wants to take c to some new place, I do no the people, but they have moved since and they didn't used to keep clean house, and I asked if I could check out environment and he said no. So there goes my weekend. There goes the LB - We've all been waiting for and at this point....I don't really think I care. It was me that asked him to leave and it was me that (before asking him) faked prepared myself for this to be the end, because he wouldn't go to counseling when he was there, and everything that he has ever gotten in life came because I filled out the application or turned over the note....so I figured...I should have known. I did know. He only takes what's handed to him and he only does what's easy. Now what. Because if he want's to fix it...sure no problem.. But other than that I'll cry it out and get it over with