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I need some help dealing with this. My husband decided to move out at the beginning of last month. Now he tells me that he wants a divorce. I am having a tough time dealing with this. I cry almost constantly, I am completely depressed I havent ate more than 6 meals since he left at the beging of july. I want him to come home so we can work things out but he says that he does not love me anymore. The bigest problem is is that He moved in with his best friend (who is single) and they go out and party everynight. Who would want to come back to a family and responsiblity when you can party and not worry about anything? I have tryed everything I can think of to get him to come back. Now I need advice and LOTS & LOTS of PRAYER!!!
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Joined: May 2003
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I will pray for you Jennipenni. I know how difficult it is and will be. Read the part on this sight about lovebusters and avoid them. I know it is hard cause you will probably be pushed to your limits. KEEP A COOL HEAD AT ALL COST! This is easier said than done but your spouse will try to do things to justify thier actions. Lean on God! And when you need him to he will carry you.God bless
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Joined: Feb 2002
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Welcome to the Separated/Divorced Diet. Everyone goes through it, as well as the other things listed below.
I suggest you see a counselor to help you with your depression. You may also want to consider anti-depressants to help you through this crisis. Talk to your doctor.
Try to find a Separated/Divorced Support group in your area. This was one of the best resources for me at that critical time. I found it at the 6 week point, and it was truly a blessing.
You will burn out your friends and family, so you need help from people who are closer to your situation.
Use MB for support and improvement.
Know that you can only work on you, you can't change H.
Stay strong, and ask for help - here or anywhere. You need people now - don't be too proud to ask.
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