Hello, James;

You wrote: </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> My situation is very similar to yours, the only diferent is that this is my first marriage and we have 2 beautilful kids. it has been almost a year now since she told me that her feeling for me is no longer there and that she doesn't trust me because I have lied to her too many times. I have been trying to work on it to no avail. She is simply doesn't want to have anything to do with it. She had the lawyer write up a draft seperation papers. I asked her to really think hard about it and she agreed to do so. I guess we will see what happend.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I am doing the things from the following website:
http://restorem.org

I would recommend it highly so far.

Gregg