My husband and I have been married 1 1/2 yrs (2 yrs in Nov) and lately things have started falling apart. It's been coming up on us for awhile now I suppose but here recently it has really gotten bad...Friday he left. We had talked about this. He wanted to take some time for bring some closure to his life (he lived at home..then the army then we got married). Anyhow, he got an apartment doesn't want me coming by and what not. We have a child. He is not her biological father but he has been with me since I was pregnant with her and we married when she was 2 months old. She is now going on two. He says we rushed into things and didn't really get to know each other. He has also said things about not being "in" love anymore but still caring about me. I have felt more positive about this off and on because he makes it seem like he's doing this to help us get to know each other better again. However, I keep thinking that with him gone..it'll be harder to come back. I don't know! Help me please! I am still as much in love with him as the day I married him and I'm willing to do whatever it takes. <P>Please see my new post with update! And PLEASE RESPOND! I Will take all the help i can get!!<P><BR>[This message has been edited by Diossa (edited July 29, 2001).]<p>[This message has been edited by Diossa (edited July 29, 2001).]