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son started new school a few days ago, he will be going to a school that helps children with ADD & depression. First day son didnt want to go, saying he wanted home schooling. I ask why he seems so excited about a new school with only a few students. Seems he is upset that dad will show up at his school like last yr. son wasnt there that day but it upset him. Son has refuse to see or talk with dad.

We now live in Fl and they dont enforce out of state custody. If X shows up again he can be arrested. Not good for a sheriff officer to have on his record. X has called our home leaving messages that upset our son, one letter from dad that blamed me for the D. I will be talking with other parents to find out who is a good Dr. our son needs help he is 14 & full of hate and angry for his dad & OW.

I wasnt sure why all the hate X has for me, he left me for MOW they are now engage, new home. X has called our home leaving messages that he hopes I burn in hell. Told me he hates me. wants me arrested & in jail. I believe he will try something, as a police officer he had MOW & another girlfriend trying to get warrents on me. X is the type he will get someone else to do his dirty work.

One of his friends told me X was mad because he tried to get his police job back & the city of atmore wont hire him. Affairs on the job, stealing money, his best friend who was chief of police lost his job, local NAACP was involved. So now I know the reason why he is so full of hate, not because of the D but his old job.

X did have a good job as a parole officer, he took that job when he knew he would be fired with the city, but it ended a few months later. X went from $30,000 to just under $10 hr, no one knew why. guys on the force are making fun of him saying that OW needed him back in the police uniform. X got a job as a sheriff officer in escambia county al, they know about his work history but its cheaper to hire him than paid someone to go to school. I never understood why women would sleep with someone just because of what they worn.

I love my new life & hope X gets his life together & quits blaming others for his unhappiness. I wasted almost 18 yrs on a man now I see as a loser. This is X 5th job since retirement from the Navy in just over 5 yrs. I hope he can get his life together. He now has OW 3 small boys to raise.

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My advice.
Tape the nasty phone calls for your protection.
Find a divorce support group for you.
Find a Rainbows class in your area for son
www.rainbows.org This is a grief support group for children of death & divorce.


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