Has anyone else been delt the same blow as me, my wife of 17 years 7 months ago served a no contact order on me and since then have had little or no contact at all.
I have been living a nightmare from day 1, since then I have been removed from the house, had everyday contact with my kids taken away, her family seem overjoyed I am gone, from what I understand as soon as I was gone, wife took all my clothes and belongings and put them in the garage, and started immediately forgetting that I ever was around, and of course this was accompanied by the fact she had new boyfriend immediatlly and he was coming over to my HOUSE ( the one I couldn't go to) and being around my kids just 1 week after I was gone.
I ended up losing my job over this.
I guess I just want to know WHY?
I know the giver/taker theory, and understand it.
But how can someone do this to another.
She knows I have no family for 2000 miles other than her and the kids, yet she seems to have no remorse that I can tell.
Even my 9 year old is bothered by the fact that my wife (ex) had the new man introduced after me being kicked out.
I had my kids for 2 weeks and it was just me and them 24/7, yet as soon as my kids go back to their mom she can't even spend time with just them, apperantly new guy came over as soon as kids got there.

I have posted many times here, ex even used my post against me........( I said I could see why a person would need an restraining order after they had thrown spouse out, kept kids away from them, and brought a new boyfriend in, all within 1 week)
She used that to report it that I was now threatening her, can you believe that?

It really is hard to have closure, I feel I have been railroaded thru this whole process, she painted me as some violent evil man who was trying get her, when I am just a man shocked by how someone you thought you knew could be so deceitful and vengeful, and how disposable I was and could be just discarded for another so easily.

She set out to ruin me, and she just about has