I found this site in April of this year, right after I found out my spouse was cheating on me again (female number 1). He had been the previous summer. I was 6 months pregnant and the only thing I found out then was all the women he had been calling and keeping them secret. In April I came across one of them again and he admitted he slept with her once...but no one else. Well I contanct one other female (number two)he had been chummy with the previous summer and her story was very different. In fact she said she was sorry she did not tell me the previous summer about all the times he had been coming over to see her. But when she found out from me that I had a baby she felt she should tell me everthing now.

Well the husband denies what this person says...and then tells me since April I have not called anyone and will never do it again, blah blah blah. Guess what the 3rd female from that previous summer is also back in the picture. I was just send a cell bill that shows he has been calling her from his brand new job that he started Aug. 25th. She also has phone numbers from a hotel he stayed at Aug. 27 and 28. So lets face the facts, she can only know these things (plus they are there in blk and white) if he has contacted her.

I don't think I can take this. Even though this is a forum to support rebuilding a marriage I feel that option will not be one anymore for me. I just really need some support from someone who can tell me yes I can rebuild again, and my two children will be ok. (one is from a previous marriage). And yes that I need to get out of this relationship, I am not over reacting.

One last thing. The one he admits the A with I just found out is going to be on the same bowling league as us. I said I am quitting, I don't want to face that person week after week. Husband says I should give it a try for a while.
What kind of support is that???

Thanks whoever can PLEASE respond.

I dont know what you should do. Heck, I don't even know what I should do! :lol:

BUT I will tell you, I had to kick my H out when i was 7 months pregnant. I also had a child just under 2 at the time. H has been gone since Jan, and I will tell you it's easier to manage two kids by myself than it was to live with him spending all his time/energy/our money on another family. That was PURE HELL.

I want my marriage back, but I don't want that HELL back.

Do what's right for your sanity.

(hope I am posting a reply correctly)
SOHURT
Thank you! Your final statement was the greatest.