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I have copied this from doofus's most recent e-mail to me:

Jane

I am at fault here.

I forgot what you and I said about chess club after school care.

I did a poor job of relaying this to M---.


doofus, my xh, does not say he is wrong very often. he can not pay attention to what I say. he believes in getting even - not getting mad. he is not a man I have a lot of respect for.

he does, however, pay his child support on time and he does love his children.

he does not respect me at all. hs wife copied me on an email she sent to son's pricey private school and her email would have cost me $200 which I don't have. I didn't respond to her but responded to him saying "Oh, I don't think this is right."

Is he beginning to commit the same communication errors he committed in our marriage? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

<small>[ October 19, 2003, 09:29 PM: Message edited by: cinderella ]</small>

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And get this. He took son to psychiatrist's office today. I met them there. S has been seeing this dr for 3.5 years and x has never shown his face there despite getting a written reaquest from the dr.

The dr told him ( <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> ) that the school x and wife wanted me so send s to was not a good choice. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> That was the highlight of my day. Tomorrow he is taking child to the counselor's office to meet with her.

I think the world is ending soon. Maybe by the weekend.


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