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I sent an e mail to xH on the 10th of Oct concerning YD braces (see braces needed thread). x has not yet responded. And that is making me angry. I want to e mail him with the statement "that you can ignore me and the e mail, but the problem still exist that you need to pay your share of our daughters braces".
I don't know if I should do this or not, I don't like having to sit back and wait for him to respond, I don't like not having control, if I e mail do I gain my control back? What should I do? Please share your inputs please, so that I have some things to consider.
On another note, I had to call xH this morning at 6:20 as one kid did not come home last night. I called the office, then the cell and finally home and got his W, she was very nasty to me. I am thinking no way, I am not calling to chit chat with her H. So when I did call the cell again to leave a message, I let him know that I don't need to be spoken to that way when I call, that I have a purpose when I call! I explained the situation with kid staying out and then stated that I do have the pleasure as well as the burden of having the kids full time, and if I have to be put out by them from time to time, he will be put out too!!! Asked for him to speak to the kid at some point today.
He did, and kid said "boy was dad mad and laid into me, you must of gotten through to him!"
Am kind of wondering how things are going for the x and blimpo!!!! Got to wonder!
Anyways, input would be great!!! Thanks!!!!
Dawn <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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Dawn,
If the decree states that he is responsible for such expenses and he is ignoring them, then take him back to court. File a contempt motion and cite the approximate cost of the braces ( you could even get more than one dentist's opinion or estimate).
He is being a jerk. When they shack up with OW or OM , the WS are lost in a fog of "it's all about me"...How dare the BS ask for anything or anything for the kids...It's all about me and my new toy (the blimp). I've got my life and they have theirs.
Well not so. If they can jointly make a baby, then they can pay when it is shown that they are supposed to.
I am sorry for this poop. We all go through it. My x is a controller and is probably NPD as well.
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