I appreciate everyone's insight on my previous e-mails, but even though this all took place ten years ago (before I was even in the picture) I still need to know for certain that he is aware that it is WRONG for a 26 year-old man to have sexual relations with a 15 year-old girl and then for him to keep her picture (just a regular picture- nothing dirty) for at least eight years in his wallet. He KNEW she was only 15. He, of all people, should have some compassion for how I must feel about this situation. I would like to ask him why he felt a need to keep that girl's picture for so long and why he would do such a thing, but he's only going to take it the wrong way and pretend he doesn't understand what upsets me about it. What upsets me about it is that it happened and I can't do a thing about it. And for some strange reason, I feel like that girl has one OVER me (or as if she's more of a woman than me) because of what took place, even though he has never cheated on me. The fact that he had sex with a 15 year-old when he was 26 bothers me and I need to get past this. The ideal situation would be for him to value my feelings about this with direct answers to these questions that I have about him. Is it inappropriate to ask him questions about it? <BR> <BR>daphnescat

Wow. My husband got arrested for it. Wasn't prosecuted, though. It's a felony. A class 6 felony, but still a felony. I am totally disgusted by it and it's hard to get past it. He lied to me about it, too. He didn't keep a picture or anything, though, and couldn't even get hard with her the one time they did it because he felt guilty. He says she said she was 17, but he knew she looked young. He says he can't say any good reason for it, but that he was just stupid and selfish. She came on to him, he says. It still makes me sick. It was only five years ago for him. I ask him about it, it's the only thing that helps. I would kill him if he had a picture, though.