I had been with my husband 20 years and have been married for ten. In those years he has left me 6 times and cheated for 5 that I know of. I know I should have left years ago but i guess i loved him too much. Once again he has been asked to leave after I found out he had been cheating. He tells me it was only for a few weeks but has since moved in with her after only knowing her for 7 weeks. He had a brief affair 18 months ago although he never moved in with her she decided to end it and he came back after proving to me that i was all he wanted and i thought we were okay the relationship seemed better than ever. I managed to survive this affair and put it behind us. We had or so i thought a good life nice house two lovely children and money but he says he loves me but he is not in love with me and he likes this other woman, who is 10 years younger than him, a lot. I since have cut off communication with him except in the case of the children who he is still willing to see. I am finding it quite hard to understand what has happened and why it has happened again. I have decided that this is the last time and even if he wants to come back i shall cut all ties and file for divorce. I would like to know if this has happened to anyone else and what their outcome was.