OK......whats the scoop guys n gals....is this a phase ?.how does one survive it??...does infidelity go hand in hand with this?...whats the root cause ..whats a family to do???.whats the mid lifer to do????how does one get trhough this...how does one get out of this...<BR>suggestions?..is this a form of runnin away?? ..<BR>thankin you in advance for your input.