Well, I posted a couple days ago about soon to be ex hubby coming back to say how much he missed my daughter and I and what a huge mistake he had made by leaving...I told him it was over..I was talking with a friend last night and she told me that hubby had IM'd her on line..She won't tell me what he said she said I have been hurt enough, but whatever it was , it was bad..So one day he is crawling back to me begging for foregiveness and the next day he is badmouthing me to people. He has done this one other time since we split and I asked him to stop, because I have done nothing wrong and I don't wish people to think of me as a bad person. I am so angry at him. I do not want him back, but why can't he just be civil..Why can't he accept that we are not meant to be together and be nice about it..He chose to leave , he chose his freedom over his family..and I am getting the blame because I won't let him come back in our lives.I am getting run down because I wasted no time filing for divorce.I filed for divorce within 5 days of him moving out.I did this because he has left me before and came crawling back and I let him come back.But this time I filed while I was still strong I made up my mind that he wasn't going to do this to me anymore. And I am the bad person..Makes absolutely no sense to me. I put my heart and soul into our marriage(and he didn't) and I'm the bad guy....

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> She won't tell me what he said she said I have been hurt enough </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">This friend obviously care more about you than what H has to say about you. And I'm sure that this friend is not the only one.