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appeals court ruled X cant claim son on income taxes, Im the custodal parent. Appeal would not rule against the military retirement. One judge said no with the other saying yes. His excuse was that he didnt know how much time was in on his military time. 14 yrs of our M was military. Lawyer called I gave her the OK to go ahead with the AL supreme court. I already knew that lower appeal wouldnt pass it. NAS legal had aready told me it had to go to the Supreme court. I wasnt upset & feel like going forward.

X showed up at son school last week, using Xmas presents as excuse to talk with son. Son refused, & is afraid of dad. He doesnt know this new person dad is today. threating phone calls at our home from dad. dad telling our son he will make him see him is too much for our 14 yr old son. Dad blames me for son not wanting to see him. X needs to take a good look at the person he has become. We both feel threated not only by X but now he is saying that OW will get me. Son is going though depression, scared to come out of his room because he thinks dad is going to kidnap him. Its time to put a end to all this trash. Im the one who has to deal with trying to get son to sleep at nights, he has nightmares about dad hiring someone to kill me.

only have a tempory order and will have to go to court to keep it. X will have to be there, telling his side of why he has called our home leaving nasty messages for me. The court will also bring up issues why X wont pay court ordered medical. I will be bring $1950.00 of medical & school bills with me. sure X will bring OW with him. OW is mad because I filed charges against her for giving X RX pain pills. I would like Judge to ask them if they are M.

got the recording of X telling me he hopes I burn in hell. X is mad because he cant get his police job back at Atmore. Because of A, & stealing money from wallet its his fault not mine. It will come up in court about his stealing & NAACP getting involved. We believe X & OW are hiding their M, X cant M until appeals are over. Both are on the same checking account, her using his name. X left his sheriff officer job now a parole officer again. X knows the law & should not be above it.

me & my son want to live a normal life with out having X with all his problems with OW in ours. I will not be a victim anymore. My son is tired of dad, & has told him how he feels about OW. Dad made promises to son & did not keep them. ITs X fault not mine that son doesnt want to see him.

If X cared about his only child, threats would stop. Give our child time to heal, his world was destroyed by D & lies. We do not talk about dad at our home. It upsets son too much, the angry in his eyes when I just say his dad name. Its time to start a new yr and go on with our lives. We both made choices & need to leave each other alone.

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Good for you. I know what you're going through. Something's broken inside your x. We know that. He's living outta control.

You do not deserve the abuse nor the cruelty. No sir. Not at all.

Keep all documentations for judge and know I am praying for you.

Oh, I saved an IM from my x dated 2 mos. ago where he said "he wished I were dead" and said that "if we had lived together he would have killed me". So they are angry. I think they are really angry at themselves b/c their lives and affairs aren't working out the way the wanted them to. That's what happens when you put all your eggs in the wrong basket.


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