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I used to post in the recovery forum. I left my H in October and now contemplating divorce. I'm sure I don't want to go home but I am unsure about divorce. Just need to talk to someone who understands.
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Hi primrose,
I don't know your story but your member number suggests that you have been here an MB'r for a long time.
Did you have an affair or was it your H?
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Married 30 years. H had an A over 3 yrs ago.I became depressed after learning of his secret life. I began drinking and smoking and ended up having a revenge A. I left H. He got his act together and found God. I believed him and went home. I got my act together and developed a new relationship with God and all was fine for a few months. H started up with the pornogragphy on the internet again, became abusive again. We tried counseling. We tried everything but he refuses to give up his porn addiction and his violent behavior. I finally had enough and left in October. That is the ugly truth of my life wrapped up in one paragraph. Of course it doesn't include all the suffering and crying. But most people on this board are very familiar with that for themselves, so I don't need to remind them.
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