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will be trying again to get X served papers for restraining order. 1st was mailed to sheriff office where he used to work. no one served him, we are going to serve him at his job in another county. papers were filed not only by me but our 14 yr old son. X will be facing both of us in court.
Depression since dad walked out with MOW. son will testify against dad, son is tired of dad making threats against me & taking him out of our home by force. son lives in fear of this man. dad has come to son school twice to get him & take him back to AL.dad left mad ,OW was with him. Son wants no part of OW or her 3 kids. son said he would tell her kids that their mother is a skank ho? not sure how to spell that one. told son it isnt their fault, they are also hurting that their parents arent together. OW children are starting to ask why parents are together. son wants to show D papers to them that has OW as the reason our M broke up.
son is doing well, wanting to do more out of the house. went to see movie yesterday, lord of the rings. Its been yrs since we had went. son loved it & had fun. got haircut saying that he wanted to look good for court. he is getting so tall I have to look up to him.
Dad told son when he was 11 all about the A & why he was leaving mom. Now the story has changed to they both D & were just friends. OW has changed her story to her X had A. they forgot about getting caught down dirt road outside city limits in patrolcar. Small town where people dont forget. son wants dad to start telling the truth about A & D. feel sorry for X. oneday X will wake up & see the pain he caused people who once loved him. for now I want the abuse to stop. no more threats against me or my child. son deserves a life without having to look over his shoulder to see if X is stalking him. son will not answer phone in fear of its dad calling to say he or OW is going to get me or take him by force.
2004 there will be no more abuse, I am in control of my life not X. X will not use his threats against me or my son again. Its time for X to start telling the truth, maybe then son will start to see the person he once knew & loved. now our son only sees a stranger who he fears.
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Joined: Dec 2003
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I am sorry you & your family are having all this pain. He sounds like a real looser. It is unfortunate that she feels the need to bash you & little does she know that your son hasn't fallen for the bait. I hope that our children can learn from our experiences without having to feel the pain we do. You stay strong & it will be okay.
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