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Me and my husband are currently separated, here is what he sent me:
I am sorry that I just keep hurting you. You are a good
person and I shouldn't be doing you the way I am. Don't think
I haven't been trying because I have for a very long time. I
am tired..I need a break and thats why I am away. This I know
hurts, but i can't help but want to be happy. I am not going
to agg you on anymore. So always prepare for the worst. Thats
what I want you to do for me.
How can I prepare for the worst, when I love him dearly, this is all just a bad dream, I hope that he comes around and realizes what he will be missing. Our son is only 4 years old. I can't even think about a divorce, any suggestions?
<small>[ January 08, 2004, 10:31 AM: Message edited by: angielt ]</small>
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My suggestion is to think abou you and your son. Right now you don't have a H and you havn't for some time.
Take a step back. Take a deep Breath and focus on yourself.
From reading some of your other posts, things have been tough for you for quite some time. You should stop trying to figure out how to help your H and figure out how to help you and your son.
I think its too late for you to prepare for the worst, but it's not to late for you to prepare for the light at the end of the tunnel for you and your son.
If he wants to be left alone, you need to do just that. You cannot make someone change their mind but you can give them a reason to by becoming a better person for yourself and becoming more desireable as an individual.
Let him see that you and your son will be OK no matter what happens.
You've been at MB for a long time and I'm sorry to see things come to this. You're going to be OK.
I suggest reading up on some of TooMuchCoffeeMans posts. He's always got good advice and motivation to become a better you.
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