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To those who have followed my 1 year ordeal, of being replaced by another man.
Things were going a little better after the lonely holidays.
Got my kids for several days, started feeling good.
Then wham!, Ex says she has renewed her restraing order on me.
I have been walking on eggshells for nearly a year, and now this.
I have done nothing to warrant this renewal, or the original.....Yes I will fight it.....
But why does she do this?
Especially when we have two beautiful daughters together.
The only abuse taking place is her abuse of the system.
Is she just to ashamed and guilty to face me?
Is just this one more way of wiping every memory or thought of our 17 years?
Rf
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Just would like some feedback
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Joined: Jun 2002
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Advice on what? You're asking a rhetorical question in almost every way.
Fight the restraining order. If my x was trying take control of everything, I'd fight her and try to wear her out with restraining orders and other things. ROs are easy and cheap to get but they do wear you out over time. I suppose the real question is... ultimately what does she want and how do her actions play into that?
Be strong.
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Advice on what? You're asking a rhetorical question in almost every way.
Fight the restraining order. If my x was trying take control of everything, I'd fight her and try to wear her out with restraining orders and other things. ROs are easy and cheap to get but they do wear you out over time. I suppose the real question is... ultimately what does she want and how do her actions play into that?
Be strong.
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