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Hi to anyone who remembers me. I was very near divorcing, a year ago, in December (2002)
Just wante to give an update and possibly give hope to some of you who are going through tough situations. My situation was about as bad as it could get (that I could stand for anyway) To make a long story kind of short,the night I told him I was finished and we had talked extensivly, he asked me what he had to do to be able to make it work and us stay together and I gave him some mighty sever ultimatums. Mainly because I had nothing to loose at this point, IMO anyway.
It has been over a year now and he has been a near perfect H and father. I do believe we will be together "till death do us part". It is just amazing what all has transpired over the past year. I really didn't think it would work as well as it has. I believe the only reason it has is because he wanted it too and although, I really wasn't ready to try again, but put my feelings in a neutral position to give it a chance.
Life is Good!
Best wishes to all!
Free
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Joined: Aug 2003
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Good for you. It's too bad more spouses don't give it a real chance. Sometimes it takes a big shocker like divorce to turn it around.
Good luck in the future.
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Free, Good to hear that things are going so well for you and your H. It's good to hear success stories.
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Joined: May 2002
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Hi Free!
Thanks for the update.
It's good to hear that you and your "H" are still moving in a positive direction.
Stay in touch and keep up the good work.
Blessings to you and all of your family.
Stay Strong!
Wallace
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