I desperately need help. I read all the Q&A columes and almost everything possible in your website, I still do not find an appropriate thing to do in my situation. Please help me and give me some solid advice.

About 2 weeks ago, my husband told me that he does not love me any more and he wants a seperation. I reacted normally, shocked, depressed and angry. Then he slept in the quest room. I tried to find some help in the internet, many advice to "agree" with him unconditinaly, magic will happen. I did so, he did not say a thing. But he acted very strangely, and I found that he is having an affair with one of his friends wife. He would go out and did not come home till late night, sometimes over night. My feeling is being hurt so badly. Tell me what to do, reveal it with him and negotiate(am I pushing him away by doing this?), or wait till it to die down, then work on the relation ship? My goal is to save the marriage. Plan A is for those who admit the affair and want to come back.

We've been married 14 years with 2 children. We did have some conflict, but I don't want to spit up and break the family. I am reading and learning a lot and hope to renew our marriage into a good marriage.

I’ve been married for 17 years with 2 children. My wife left and married another man. What I do is wait for her to return someday. There really is nothing for you to do now but pray and seek out God and be still. That is the hardest thing to do right now. I’ve been doing it for three years and I know in the end it will all work out. I don’t know how or why but, God is in control of all things all of the time and we only get in his way. Be there for your husband and don’t let your good marriage be destroyed like so many other marriages are today