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I just cant seem to get it right. My wife no longer has any feelings for me and says it is over. I had done some things that were clearly out of bounds and I have taken and continue to walk upright in all areas of life. I cannot get her to give an inch in communcating or working on our relationship. I am finding myself just begging like a stupid little puppy. Some days she is sweet for a minute or two but then goes back to her distant and fatalistic mode. We have had one counseling session and she has said she will continue but it is over. Is she trying to justify her feelings through the counselor so that she can continue with the plan of divorce? I have tried to back off and just try to call and say hi how is your day but she tries to keep me on the phone to what I think is another opp to get me to start begging. I had been successful by not feeding into it but I could not today. She is saving he money to move out with the kids which of course I do not want. However this is just agony. What should I do now? I dont want to continue to blow it if there is any chance but I cannot live like this either.
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