We got Married on April 1997.
Ours was arranged marriage,Since begining she was not ready to mingle with my Family, only one week we stayed with my parents then we went to other city, where i was working. In the 2nd week of marriage she demanded DIVORCE, which i was not ready to give, then she and her family started to harasse me, After one year our 1st child born i found out, that she had affair with other man, and she wanted to marry him.but i never questioned her about it, she was Fun loving girl, After she come back from delivery,she started act strange,her words were sharp,and she was doing as her mother/sister told her. Even once her mother told her in front me, NOT to cook. and she did that. i fought with her that day. she was complaining i was not doing as she wanted.

All she wanted is; I have to do as she says
I have to give money to her brothers, whenever they want, and never ask it to return.
I have to give all my salary in her hand to manage home
I have to stay in her parents house, when we go to our native place.
I Should not ask, where she goes in the night
I have to wish her all Family members on occation,but she never done same to my Family.
Her Father was thretened me that I have to cook for her Even After coming back from Office
I have to bring Good Expensive wishkey when Family members come home, when i refuse to do coz i`m not drinking and i`m against alcohol;she made to promise to our neighbour that i`ll start drinking [ I see women who pray/do pasting for thier husband to STOP drinking.]
She was insulting me when i drink pepsi in get-together,saying its childs drink.
She was telling smoking was style of society- coz i was not smoking.
She was telling she was not SLAVE to do house hold work.
I was doing my laundry I can challenge any women in cooking(she never been to kitchen till her marriage)
She never know how to hold a needle - I was stiching kids cloths and buttons
She Demanded to write my Flat to her name
She always demanded to make more new gold ornaments-now she took all my gold with her
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WHY women cann`t handle good Faithfull husband..?
What women actually want...?

Now i sent Divorce notice to her...

Some women want more excitement. They want the roller-coaster ride and drama a less than good man presents.

But that’s not what’s really going on here. It wasn’t that she couldn’t handle a faithful husband; but rather she didn’t want a marriage to begin with. If half of what you say is true, she wanted a thrall, a servant, not a partner.

I’m curious about her family’s reaction to you though. Since it was an arranged marriage, I’d have thought her family would be more supportive of you and the marriage. What sort of people are her family? Could they have used you for the betterment of their family without regard to you and your welfare?

I think you are correct to divorce your wife and ditch her family. Try to get custody of the child. Make sure she cannot take your child out of your country. Otherwise, you may have a hard time with the custody arrangements.

ThanX;
In my country women has more rights than men,Law hardly give child custody to men,it is said "Any criminal can get child custody if they r women"
she filed False case against me,4 years back,but never came to the court to prove it.its a non compoundable criminal case,if i`m not present for one date court issue arrest warrant,after 4 years now court sent summons,and she just ignoring it.police also not doing anything coz she is a women.
Women know how to misuse the law or get work done,
with smile if that fails they open more 2 buttons,still that not work, they shed crocodile tears.

Ugh. It sounds like equality of the sexes gone awry.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by greengables:
<strong> Ugh. It sounds like equality of the sexes gone awry. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">It sounds to me like an argument against arranged marriages.