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My ex h to be waits three months later after his son is born to ask for a paternity test. I have never cheated on him and he even stated himself that our son looks like his oldest son when he was born. Why would someone do that when they know that they are the father? He wants to present a false case against me in court and is contesting custody yet he is asking for a paternity test.
Does this sound right??????
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Well,if you STBXH is asking for a paternity test then he somehow believes that the child may not be his although I don't know what prompted that idea.He probably doesn't want to pay any CS if there's a chance the child isn't his but I surmise that his reasoning for all this lies within himself.It doesn't make sense to me either otherwise.
Is anything else going on that you can think may be attributable here?
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If he is willing to pay for the test and it's done by a reputable lab (so both of you can demonstrate the lab is not just providing the desired result for the party paying for the test) then why not have the test done.
If there is no way this is not his child, the only party that will be embarrassed is him.
Tony
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The child is definelty his. We were in a marriage and I honored my vows by not being with anyone else.
We will be going through a big custody support and divorce issues in court. He is filing for limited divorce on the grounds that i deserted him. I left my marital home because he was treating me badly before during and after my pregnancy. We had a fight before I got pregnant be cause he didnt want anymore kids. He already has three kids from two different women. Now he has 4 kids from three different women. ALong with wanting a paternity test is contesting custody for joint custody. I dont understand why people claim to have God in their lives yet lie and cause so much trouble. If he wasnt such a controlling and demanding person mayber our marriage would of worked but I honestly think he is out to get me and is making up a story in court to put me down.
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