This is not about the Passion, but my own Problem. Everything that has happened with my wife and I is stored in my head as a movie. I believe it is because there was never any closure or firm outcome. She said to drop the subject, or blamed me, or did it her way, or made me do it her way. She said I cant forgive and forget. True. When the outcome sucks and you have to live with someone else's decision that you disagree with how do you put it away and never bring it up again? I am trying to Fix myself as only I can do.