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WH has all control of $ and I stay at home with the kids. He's been paying the bills and giving me cash here and there for food and gas. Since he's been deployed, I have gotten one call about a home equity loan he was supposedly looking into, and just got another call from a collection agency about a "bank account that is in the rears" - that's all she would say. I don't even know what that means. Ugghh!!! Also, right before he left I got a notice that we had bounced 3 checks. This is insane, I don't know what I'm supposed to do. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
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While he is deployed, find all financial statements and make copies of all that you can.
If you do divorce, you will need to know all the accounts.
If he's coming back soon, let him deal with the arrears (late).
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Ha ha I'm laughing. "In the rears", like that? That was really bad! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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