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Argh! Had words with the X this afternoon, which left me shaking and angry. I keep pressing him for child support, and he keeps accusing me of ruining his career. Says he hasn't been able to get a job around here because of 2 phone calls I made to check up on him when he was sneaking around on me. ????? I think he is mentally ill, personally, he says he has evidence that I am still sabotaging his job search. I told him I haven't done a thing, and I WANT and pray for him to be successful, getting money from him is what I want. WHY is he still ACCUSING me of this. Why do I still get upset about it? I was doing well, and then this, why he was cussing and calling me all sorts of names on the phone!!!!!
Just venting, thanks everybody.
kk
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kk,
You will still have some triggers that anger you and he sounds like he is still in la-la land. My x left her job shortly after the divorce because "they were after her."
I think it took me better than 2 yrs before the majority of my anger left. But I don't have the cs issues you do.
My g/f's x owes her $11000. She gets mad at times, but for the most part she has come to accept he is not going to pay up so she might as well not get worked up over it.
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