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<small>[ March 06, 2004, 04:12 PM: Message edited by: Zatman ]</small>
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Z- She is trying to figure out her emotions. She is reaching for something in the past and thinks she may have made a mistake. I think she is a having and EA with her past and is trying to say that you are abusive to begin justification for her feelings. She is looking for anything you do or say to help her feel that her latent feelings for this man are right and that she should pursue him. It is tough to deal with but right now you may want to consider what you are doing to make her think about him. You may be doing nothing however if you are not meeting her emotional needs you need find out and start meeting them.
Good luck!
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Very true.
What is the sitch in how you met WW and what is sitch regarding her divorce with xh?
If you were a part of the breakup, it is very possible she's wanting out now...I don't know you've got to give more information.
FYI...my SEVERELY XWH called from his "business trip" and said he had to "meet with me in person" and "just couldn't do it over the phone or through email (as I requested) to discuss finances and other issues as well tomorrow afternoon. They do want contact if they have residual feelings b/c every bit of stuff I need to accomplish with regard to my xh can be done via computer or phone. No need to see him anymore.
She is having an em. affair. She may be missing him alot and you need to understand why...WHY is the key.
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<small>[ March 07, 2004, 02:32 PM: Message edited by: Zatman ]</small>
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