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#766987 03/09/04 03:17 PM
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Well I did it. After finding sooo much nonsense about she and the OM I felt I was left with no other option. Friday I found out that he is a multiple time felon and is currently serving 2 years on a probation violation. Sat I found out that she has accepted 100's of $ from the pen for this guy on my phone, love letters, lies lies and more lies. Now she is denying access to my children although she has no right to do so. She will not take any of my call to talk about business. What else can I do?

I had no idea that an A could do this to someone. She is clearly not the person I once knew and loved. None the less it is unfortunate. No winners just losers especially the children. Is there any way I can get the children legally? She can go but I really miss my children.

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Be sure the children stay with you! This is so important.

#766989 03/09/04 03:36 PM
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Hey Man, I hear Ya,
I too have a WW who was emotionally if not sexually involved with an inmate. I have love letters from her to him that were not deliverred. And I have actual mailed letters from him to her through her girlfreinds address. I am going to find a lawyer that will at a minimum threaten a jury trial for the custody of my children based on the fact that she had long term plans to be with this felon/murderer as soon as he gets out if ever, not to mention his remarks regarding physical contact he and her had. Just need to get the phone records now, which she has so nicely disposed of for the last year. I feel for ya man. My life is in total turmoil now. Just documents everything as I was suggested to do.

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DA - I am fighting for custody all the way. If she calls I will try to extract anything I can on tape. If possible I want her to threaten me with death. My attorney is experienced and will work hard to at least get temp cust. He said if we win that then more than likely it will stay that way.

Humble - how did you get the letter undelivered? I have a lot of info on the phone recs already and we will subpeana her cell phone and their joint account information as well.
Tomorrow will be interesting when she will be served by the sheriff's deputy. I don't want to gloat but she probably thought I would never do it.

I just don't understand how she would throw me away and the good family life for that.


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