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My husband stays up to all hours of the night on the weekends - online. He says he is playing pool and cards. But, why does he delete the history trail on his screen name? He also hides the detail history that the computer keeps. He want tell me his screen name's. His actions are very questionable. He tells me I should trust him. This is really taking a toll on me - what do you think?
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Joined: Aug 2001
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You know it is not pool and cards only. Otherwise, there would be no reason to hide the history. Obviously, he does not want you to know exactly what he is doing. And that is why you are concerend.<p>There are a number of things he could be doing, such as:<p>1. playing pool and cards AND engaging in 'chat' that he does not want you to see;<p>2. playing pool and cards FOR MONEY (i.e. net gambling);<p>3. not playing pool or cards and doing something else on the net. The possibilities are endless and include porn surfing, chat rooms, cyber pals, and more.<p>I forget which site it is on, but if you go to crl759's current thread, there are a number of other threads linked and one of them has a link for a webiste that gives instructions on how to view cookies and other internet 'traces' even where the history has been erased.<p>That would be the first place to start - the cookies on your computer.<p>Another alternative is to install a specialized software. This is also mentioned in one of the linked threads.<p>Since your H is sticking to his 'playing pool and cards' explanation, you only have two choices: believe him or do a little sleuthing. If you find after sleuthing that he was only playing poll and cards, then you can rest easier.
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Do I hear an echo???? Of course, he's in chat rooms or on porn sites. Trying again nailed it.
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I'M TRUKY SORRY TO SAY THAT HE JUST MAY BE CHATTING WITH SOMEONE ONLINE OR AS THE OTHER PERSON SAID PLAYING OR GAMBLING RATHER. OBVIOUSLY NOTHING GOOD OTHERWISE HE WOULDN'T KEEP THOSE THINGS FROM YOU. ASK SOMEONE THAT KNOWS ABOUT COMPUTERS HOW YOU MAY GO ABOUT GETTING THE HISTORY ON WHATHE IS DOING. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
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