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Well, first I am so grateful I found this place!Found out that H was having an online "affair" not too long ago. We instinctively did allot of the things that marriagebuilders advocates, and now I would consider us in recovery. The thing is this - I have become almost "hyper" sexual with my husband. Has anyone else gone through this after the truth is out? I have voiced my concerns to him, but gee, he is a -man- and to him this is a very good sign. Mostly I feel that it an honest response to him being truely open to me again - after hiding so much for a few months.<p>I intend to bring the subject up at counseling during our next session..<p>and thank you all so much for restoring my faith in the fact that there are people who think marriage is worth doing the work!!!
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ok the problem here isthat he has an affair online???
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The problem is he _had_ an online affair. He has ceased all contact. He was the party who initiated the counseling. We are actively working to make our marriage better.<p> I am just wondering if anyone else has gone through a phase similar to this? Should we "holdoff" on such intense physical contact for awhile during the major reconstruction phase of our life?
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<small>[ January 27, 2005, 01:00 PM: Message edited by: hanora ]</small>
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