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I was looking for something I had posted and saw where a post I thought didn't go through actually did. H left the house saying that he was going to see his lawyer for a divorce. Well he came back and didn't go through with it. So the roller coaster continues.
We have an appt with Dr. Harley tomorrow morning. I hope it helps both of us. At this point not too hopeful. I think we're beyond hope. I'm not sure that H will ever be able to forgive. It's too much for him. His wounds are as fresh today as they were 10 months ago when I confirmed his worst fear. There doesn't seem to be any salve that helps. In fact it seems that the more time goes by, the fresher the wound becomes and the number of things that are my fault over the last 13 years continues to grow.
Anyway, sorry to all for posting prematurely. I really thought that was the time he was really going to leave. Again I wasnt to thank all for your concern and advice over the last few months that I have posted on and off. Pray that tomorrow goes well for us.
I'm precious
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"I'm Precious,"
I know it's hard for you to be objective because you are in the midst of it, but an appt. with Dr. Harley tomorrow?? That's really come a "long" ways from when you first posted. The fact that your husband is willing to do that is wonderful! And I think maybe it will be more effective than you might think. (I hope and pray!!).
Try not to despair, k? Remember that the Lord is with you and many marriages have survived very terrible things. There is still much hope for your marriage. Even the fact that your husband didn't go through with seeing a lawyer. I know that being on a "roller coaster" is hard and I'm sure it's emotionally exhausting, but your husband is confused, but in a way that's good because he's not set on divorce and not certain that's really what he wants.
I will pray that things will go very well with Dr. Harley tomorrow and that he will have great insight and wisdom for the two of you and that both you and husband will be receptive and touched by whatever he says and whatever transpires.
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