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well in dec we went to a xmas party and right in front of me she said to a guy hey i got black bra and black panties you want to go jump in the pool
i was outraged so i went up to the rooom we rented and went to bed
i wake up 4 hours later and went downstairs the only 2 left from the party are my wife and this guy in the pool
so i went home
she said whats wrong i said do i even have to tell you that?
i said everybody elses spouses and girlfriends went to there rooms except you thats whats wrong
so come jan shes already been on 7 vacations without me while i stay ome with the kids.
all i asked is to go on one i wasnt asking for much i dont think
then 3 weeks ago she came up and asked me can i go shhot pool with todd tonight i said well how come we dont go
so she got mad and slept on the couch for 2 nights so i told her i know whats more important to her so i moved out
6 years ago she cheated on me
so i got my stuff out she had a personal check ready for me within 2 days for the half equity of the house so my name is already off the house
so is this really over you think do you guys think i had a right to leave or was i jumping the gun
within a week my kids said she came home drunk with hickeys all over her didnt take her that long
then she came home one night from the bar and i peeked out the window and saw her hop out of a ford explorer and when she came home i asked how did she get home she said a taxi lies
lies,infidelity,trust,disrespect i cant do this anymore and yet the blame still lies on me how i do not know
if shes unhappy she should leqave instead of doing all these acts and hurting me
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by jimn:
<strong> if shes unhappy she should leave instead of doing all these acts and hurting me </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I know how ya feel on that one!
It does sound like she was up to something. I'm sorry for what your family is going through.
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