well it all started in dec when we to a xmas party we had drinks with her co workers and while i was sitting there she told a guy you want to hop in the pool i got black bra and black panites on right in fornt of me so i went to the room and decided to go to bed later on i woke up and she wasnt there so i went down to the pool area and there she was in the pool with that guy only them 2 buythemselves.so i left she said whats wrong i said do i even have to answer that
then came jan shes been on 6 vacationc buyherself and i stayed home with the kids i just said i would of liked to go on one of them i wasnt asking much
then when she s home she asks me if she can shoot pool with a guy from work i said whats wrong and she said nothing i said we shouldnt even be having the conversations we should be doing stuff together
well 8 years ago she cheated on me and i beleive thats whats going on now just suspesion
so i said im done she said ok i moved my stuff out and she had a 10thousand dollar check ready for me 3 days later for the house im so confused where did she get this money
did i make a mistake or does this seem normal in marriges
im sad my family broke up im depressed but what kind of marriage is this partying is more important than me and the kids
my name is off the house already were not divorced yet but should i wait for her to think about things or should i just call it quits i still love her but dont get the same feed back from her like she hates me i spent 14 years with this women now im nothing it happened so quick no closure im not sure what really happened im very confused didi try hard enough did she no closure really bothers me
will i ever get the answers i need
thanks alot
jim