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how do you begin to reconcile if you are totally ignored
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by NormanS:
<strong> how do you begin to reconcile if you are totally ignored </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You work on YOU. You fix any things in YOU that irritate your spouse.
And you WAIT until the "ignoring" spouse is ready to approach or talk.
Keep reading here. You are in a good place to learn how to fix this with minimal help from your withdrawn spouse.
God Bless,
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First, welcome Norman. And I’m sorry you have to be here.
Next, while I’d love to reply, I don’t really have enough information.
Here’s some questions to get started. Don’t worry about how long it is.
1. Are you divorced, separated or just heading that way?
2. Has there been any infidelity? If so when, how long and whom?
3. How long have you been married? Any children?
4. What led up to this point? Since you are the one willing to work, make sure you include where you may have screwed up as well as where your spouse screwed up.
5. Include if you’ve read the site, and any books you’ve read on relationships and marriage.
We’re here and ready to offer any help we can.
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