My wife and I have been married for only 21/2 years. We met in December and got engaged in late December. We married in June the following year. I was in the military about to be shipped overseas, I couldn't stand the thought of being without her. So I asked her to marry me. Last year we started having problems, mainly because I wasn'nt paying attention to her needs. I know that now. We are back in the states now, and she told me that she doesn't love me any more and that it's not going to work. I told her everything that I could to convince her how much I love her. I even suggested that we get counsling. But she doesn't know if it could work. I just don't know what to do, she is so distant lately and she will not tell me she loves me, wich really bothers me. She has also quit wearing her wedding ring about a year ago saying that it's too loose and she's afraid of losing it. I know that we married too soon, but I loved her then so much, and I still do. I'm at my end, what should I do? [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]

Hi there BNY4605<p>Good to see you found Marriage Builders (MB). [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>I can only pass on to you what happened to a friend of mine in what sounds like a similar situation:<p> Everything going ok. she's been a bit distant maybe.
Next wife says 'I don't love you anymore'.
Then he finds out that she's been having an affair for the last 6 months.<p>Don't get me wrong i'm not saying that this is the case! Just passing on what limited experience I have on this matter. [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] <p>She could easily have got the wedding ring adjusted at a store if it was too big?<p>You could try finding out what emotional needs (EN) she feels are not being met using the emotional needs questionnaire below.<p>Emotional Needs Questionnaire<p>It might just work?! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Rainbow