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Hello all, I had a kind of strange experience about a week or so ago that I think some of you may find interesting. About 2 weeks ago I was cleaning out the basement, gathering a bunch of WW’s stuff together for her as the mediation agreement dictated, and I ran across a “magic 8-ball” that belongs to my son. You all know what I’m talking about right? The thing is shaped like an billiards 8-ball with a little window on one side, it is filled with a blue-ish liquid and floating multi-faced spherical shape with a bunch of vague answers on it…. The point being you ask the 8-ball a question and shake the damn thing and wait for it to answer…. The floating deal inside will come to the top, where the window is and answer you question with on of these vague sayings… You’ve all seen these before, right? Well, anyway… I asked it if WW would ever return to our family. It answered (…and I don’t recall the exact wording, so I’ll paraphrase) “It looks promising.” So I asked it if we would have to go thru with this divorce. The answer was a solid “Yes.” A little bewildered, I find myself standing in the basement having a conversation with this stupid little toy… I say “Wait a minute, are you sure about this? Will WW come back to us and want to fix the marriage?” I shake it and it answers “I would count on it.” So then I continue “…but we are going to get divorced first…???” I shake it and wait for a reply. It takes about twice as long for the little thing in there to quit bouncing around and get settled on an answer, but the answer was again and unwavering “Yes.” So, I kinda sat there for a second ponder what I was just told… considering the source of course. It has been on my mind for some reason for the last couple of days… can’t explain why. Not that I plan on seeking counsel from my kids toys, just thought you guys would get a kick out of that… <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
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I got a kick out of it <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Hey, go shake it again ask if I'm is going to end up strangling my wife's boyfriend. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> No, no. Ask it if my wife has a serious psychological disorder that causes her to distort reality and makes her act like she crazy. I bet that thing will shout out, "Yes!! Heck Yeah, she does"! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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Thats kinda spooky. I was just thinking of starting a thread asking if anyone has or would get back together w/ their ex after the big D.
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Well, I don’t know if I would or not. I certainly would not let her back with open arms…. Just because she wants to come home. It would take a lot…. A lot of time, a lot of effort on her part, a lot of work on both of our parts. It would take a lot! We would have to move, she would have to become totally transparent…
I think initially I would start seeing her again for the kids… I think I would feel like I owed it to them to give it another shot. But for a long time I would keep her distant… emotionally speaking, just for the safety of it (emotionally speaking that is). But man would it take a lot… it would be even more work than just starting from the beginning, there is a history there, a bad one! On top of that, I don’t think what I feel for her is love… I certainly care about her, she is the mother of my kids… but I don’t think it is love.
So I guess the answer to that question is yeah…. I would give it a shot… but man would it take a lot!
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I’ll ask it tonight. I’m gonna have to keep that thing handy for times that I get stumped on how to deal with her…
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I agree with the it would take a lot and the move. And the move would not be towards extended family. After how ever much MC it takes I would want to move several states away at least before we were back in the same house. And I think I would still require her to pass a weekly lie detector test too. I'm going to ask the question here and on General Questions II just for the hell of it.
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"And I think I would still require her to pass a weekly lie detector test too." Now that is funny! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
I would too. But honestly, I would question my own motives. Would it be to just satisfy my ego? Or would it be because I knew it would work again? There is SO much. This woman has looked me in the face and calmly said, "I would never love you". How can you come back from that? And if she did...I don't know. I will attempt to take her back because right now she has my heart.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by deadtoitall: <strong> No, no. Ask it if my wife has a serious psychological disorder that causes her to distort reality and makes her act like she crazy. I bet that thing will shout out, "Yes!! Heck Yeah, she does"! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Darn it, darn it, darn it!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> I forgot to ask the damn thing!!! I will do it tonight, promise!
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Ok Dead... I asked it...the answer (and I quote) "No Doubt"...!!! So there ya go, it's official... she's nuts. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
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I knew it! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
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You too can get answers like this for yourself.... http://www.mattelgames.com/magic8/flash_index.aspHave fun!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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FREAKY.... I get the same answers.... That is too wierd.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />
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LOL ... WMWB .. ummm ask it a question 4 me ... ohh wait I can't type that here... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
I would have to say NO ... After everything she has done and put the kids and me thru .. I can't really say I would take my wife back ... if she even wanted to .. I do love her, I always will at some level... but she has made decissions to hurt the kids and me over and over again. To throw everything away for this OM. JMHO
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